Real Talk - You're An Original

"I'll never be like her." These are the 4 words I remember going through my head the first time I went to a youth group at age 13. I looked around the room & saw several girls that to me, looked like models. Their hair looked perfect, they were poised, and had many friends. They seemed to have it all together.

It wasn't until I was in high school that I realized how unrealistic my view was. At the time tough, it seemed completely legitimate.

If you're reading this & out of school, I'm sure you can relate to what I meant when I said my view was unrealistic. However, if you're younger than you may be dealing with some of these same feelings, too!

Yes, I thought I would never be like her. There is truth in that statement. I never did everything like her. That's because I'm not her and I'm proud of that. Because nobody else can ever be me.

However, I did change in those growing seasons & am proud to say that I learned from them.

To put it simply, I learned that each of us is an original. Irreplaceable. Never forget that.

PS nobody has it all together. And that's okay. 💜

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